The Power Lunch

Amidst the economic downturn breaking bread for business is far more scarce then in the days past. Luncheons in general are on the decline and The Power Lunch is no exception. Nevertheless, it is unlikely to fall by the way side and become a lost art. Therefore, what better time to explore the importance of the practice than now.

The Power Lunch should be a strategic weapon in the arsenal of any businessman. There is a great deal to that can be accomplished in the time it takes from bread to bill, so this time should be taken seriously. You want to create an atmosphere conducive to your goal for the meeting, conduct a solid meeting, leave a strong impression, and oh - don't forget to look sharp in the process. That part is essential to leaving a lasting impression. This isn't dress rehearsal, it’s a business meeting. Here are some tips to remember in preparation.

Pre Lunch Tips

• If it is up to you to suggest the restaurant, have one in mind that willbe conducive to conversation. A sports bar just doesn't make it.
• Call and make reservations. If you are familiar with the restaurant andthe staff, ask for a table that will suit your meeting.
• Call your client to confirm. Inform the client that reservations have beenmade under your name.
• Arrive early so you can make sure everything is in order.
• Talk to your waitperson and give them your credit card. Learn thewaitperson's name.
• Look over the menu and decide on your order.
• Order something non-alcoholic to drink while you wait.
• Be well aware of your client's interests so you can easily slide in andout of small talk.
• Keep your cell phone on vibrate in case your client needs to cancel. Thisway you'll not be kept waiting at the table through lunch. Lunch Tips
• If your client orders an alcoholic drink you should consider ordering one,but no more.
• The time it takes for the waitperson to reappear is time for small talkabout the food, about the weather, about the client's interests.
• If the client asks what's tasty and well prepared at the restaurant, youcan offer your favorites.
• While the client looks over the menu, turn your cell phone completely off.
• When the waitperson returns ask them to list the specials, and place yourorder.
• After the order has been placed you may begin talking about business.

Dress For Success


Persol 714s, persol.com
Creed Silver Mountain Water, creedfragrances.co.uk
J.W.Hulme Co Portfolio in Tan, jwhulmeco.com



Ralph Lauren Purple Label Barrel Collar Navy/White Banker Stripe, polo.com
Anderson-Little Blue Blazer, andersonlittle.com
Alexander Olch White Pockets Square with Navy Trim, olch.com
J. Press Navy Gold Stripe Tie, jpressonline.com




Mason's Tan Polplin Washed Pant, masons.it
J. Press Veal Belt, jpressonline.com
Allen Edmonds Chile Grain Calf Wingtip, allenedmonds.com

Mono-a-Mono

For centuries royalty, bourgeoisie, and businessmen have used the monogram for a variety of reasons. Though some uses are more practical than others, the popularity grew in and out of society throughout time. Nevertheless, with the recent favor of traditional style, it seems necessary to explore the monogram itself as a matter of course. The history and ruling of the practice can be read in further detail below. However, the opinion here is that, as the Romans say, anything in moderation can be tolerated. More specifically phrased, if tastefully done, a monogram can add an element of detail and sophistication that speaks to meticulous style. For shirtings, try the bottom of the chest pocket or under the cuff. If that is perhaps a bit overbearing, then a well engraved pair of cuff links can be a good substitute.

The J. Crew Men’s Shop online offers a variety of casual, dress, and work shirts that can now be personalized in this respect.

Regardless of the decision to bear insignia on your daily wear, the practice has more practical uses that should not be overlooked. The personalization of stationary is a good touch when sending out letters of business, or personal matters. Letters and/or invitations carrying your monogram will be received in a completely different light, than those without. There is a distinct level of professionalism that is reached by utilizing personal stationary. If paper is a bit much, then start with envelopes or single folded cards. In any case, it is food for thought.

A recommended site for personalized stationary is: The Stationary Studio

http://www.thestationerystudio.com/index.cfm/fuseaction/catalog.viewProduct/productId/2530

Make sure to go with something simple and classic. This will send the right message without being too kitschy.

HISTORY

http://www.monogrammecca.com/articles/

Historically, a monogram was used as a royal signature. Romans and Greeks used them on coins to identify their rulers. Then, in the Middle Ages, artisans began to use them to sign their work. Victorian-period high-class persons adapted the monogram for personal use as a symbol of their place in society. Now, monograms can be seen on just about anything: bags, shoes, purses, clothes, personal stationary, and, of course, towels. Towels are perhaps the most popular of these examples. Newlyweds will often choose new towels and the monogram to be embroidered.

One can look almost anywhere and find a monogram. Luxury car companies sometimes monogram the leather seats of their vehicles, monograms are sometimes used as company logos, and people walk around with monogrammed jewelry and bags all the time.

In the Victorian era, rules for monograms were quite simple and few. Female monograms had the first initial on the left, middle initial on the right, and last initial embroidered larger in the middle. But the rules are hardly simple anymore.

A monogram can be playful, whimsical, flamboyant, traditional, elegant, or understated; the number of choices today is almost infinite. Many still choose to use the traditional Victorian female model, but now there is a traditional male model of first, middle, last, all in the same size, and there are numerous styles to choose from. A monogram can be a whole name or just initials. Rules are now flexible, but for the purist, there are a few standards. First of all, monograms with three initials are generally in the Victorian format of first initial, large last initial, middle initial. Then there is the male monogram of same-size letters first, middle, last initials.

THE RULES

http://www.embroideryarts.com/resource/rulesofmonogramming.php

Although there have been periods in history when single initial monograms and two-letter monograms were preferred, the three-letter monogram has come to symbolize the standard layout.In the 19th and Early 20th Centuries, when the rules for three-letter monograms were created, it would have been fairly easy to decide which letters represented which parts of an individual’s name.A woman by the name of Alice Canfield Bostwick, for example, would immediately recognize this monogram as her own – first name initial (A) on the left, middle name initial (C) on the right, and last name initial (B) in the center, larger than the rest.

A Mid Summer Night's Screen

Its summer time, which means it’s time to get outdoors, and doing something that enables you to take in the summer days and nights. What better way to kick off the week with a significant other or friends, than with some classic cinema on the green. Most cities offer some form of screening that can be sought out with relative ease. A simple internet search and you are a step closer to habitual summer screening.

For years parks have played host to many cult classics like Breakfast at Tiffany’s, The Breakfast Club, Ocean’s 11 (the original), and Sabrina. Today, catching a film in this manner has become a cult classic in its own right. So grab a picnic blanket, your favorite bottle of wine, and head down to the park for mid summer nights screen.

Here are a few things to consider...

Tips:

• Get there early. Typically, when they open the grass, there are people waiting to set down their blankets. If possible, get one member of your group to be there waiting by about 4:30 or so to ensure you get a good seat and ample space.
• Sometimes it can get crowded, especially the closer it gets to show time - cell phones and balloons are recommended to help your group find each other in time for the movie. (Be certain to dispose of your balloons in the trash).
• Bringing food and drinks is great and makes for a more festive occasion, but be aware of the bathroom locations as they can be tough to get to with the crowds, especially once the movie starts.
• Check to see if the grass opens for picnicking, and see when the films begin.
  
  
  
  
  
  

What to Wear:

Remember, its summer so no need to overdo it. Go with something that speaks casual sophistication. Try a light weight washed chambray (J. Crew, www.jcrew.com) button up rolled to the elbow, paired with a tan chino (www.levi.com) rolled up above a pair of brown slip-on penny loafers (Sperry Topsider, www.sperrytopsider.com). Finish it off with a crocodile belt (www.ajskins.com) - and you’re good to go!

The Bloody Truth

These days the Bloody Mary can be enjoyed in many manifestations – with beer instead of tomato juice, extra spicy peppers, or even yogurt. The bottom line is to use your imagination. Tomato juice can stand up to a lot of experimentation, so have fun!

At one point or another every man should learn the proper art of mix and serve. Should the honing of this skill elude you, it is a must to attain the essential knowledge to get you by. Enter the Bloody Mary. Cure to the common hangover, staple of the brunch menu, and secret sauce of the weekend golfer, this concoction delivers an exhilarating kick like no other.

Most usually say make it "to taste", so once you find a recipe that works, stick with it! When it comes to the palette you will find that the difference between good and great is vast! For everything you have ever wanted to know about Bloody Mary’s, but were afraid to ask, visit http://www.drinksmix.net/.

For now, here are basics...

The Traditional Bloody Mary:

(with a secret twist)

1 1/2 ounces (1 jigger) vodka

1/2 cup tomato juice

2 teaspoons fresh lemon juice

Worcestershire sauce to tasteTabasco to taste

1 celery stick for garnish
1 lemon wedge for garnish

The secret twist: A-1 sauce to taste - adds that extra zest!

Combine the vodka, the tomato juice, the lemon juice, the Worcestershire sauce, the Tabasco, the A-1, 1 cup ice cubes, and salt and pepper to taste, shake the mixture well, and strain it into a tall glass filled with ice cubes. Garnish the Bloody Mary with the celery stick and the lemon wedge.

The History:

http://www.drinksmix.net/bloody_mary_history.htm

Fernand Petiot, an expatriate who bartended at Harry’s New York Bar in Paris in the ‘20’s, is the famed inventor of the legendary Bloody Mary. The story goes that when he mixed the tomato juice and vodka, a patron suggested that the drink be named the Bloody Mary, because it was reminiscent of the Bucket of Blood Club in Chicago, and a girl there named Mary. Another account is that the drink is named after the lovely Bloody Mary herself, Queen Mary I, famous for her persecution of the Protestants.

Whatever the origins of the drink, it quickly became popular back in the US when Petiot began bartending at the St. Regis Hotel, and spiced it up for his classy New York clientele.

Slippery Obsession: Stubbs & Wootton

Stubbs and Wootton

Stubbs and Wootton garners the respect of those who appreciate design and quality hand craftsmanship. Exclusive, comfortable, and unique, these slippers are as versatile as they are enamoring. You can find them online at stubbsandwootton.com or at their stores located in Palm Beach, New York City, South Hampton, as well as, select Neiman Marcus.

Shown above: Skull Black

http://stubbsandwootton.com/shoebrowser.php?cat=5

The jolly roger takes to the high season. The skull and cross sabres design is embroidered in shades of cream and white on imported black velvet. This classic slipper is trimmed in black grosgrain, with a black heel and sole.

Summer Sanctuary‏

The Summer Solstice is still approximately 30 days away, but that hasn't stopped record temperatures from heating up cities from coast to coast. So whether it’s The Hamptons or Montecito, Nantucket or Newport, you can unpack the madras and moccasins early.

Here are a few items you may want to look into for that modus operandi that says you're relaxed and content wherever you may find yourself.




Gitman Master Shirt Makers; Gitman Vintage

This label truly deserves the title of master shirt maker. Not only have they been cutting and sewing in Ashland, Pennsylvania since 1948, but they also are the licensee for Burberry dress and sport shirts AND the sole manufacturer for Tom Browne and Cole Haan. Their identity is based on quality and construction with over 100 collar models and a vast selection of the finest fabrics.

Cape Madras; Men's Madras Bermuda Short
http://www.capemadras.com/product/mens-madras-bermuda-shorts.htm

Madras has become an American classic over the past several decades, and Cape Madras of Cape Elizabeth, Maine may be one of the best manufacturers of it. The creator, Jenna Sisselman, has been creating the fabrication in various color for only a few years (2004), but her sense of color has made the brand an instant classic.

Scott Urban; divine strainermaterials: desert ironwood w/ turquoise http://www.urbanspectacles.com/indeximages.htm

These hand crafted optics are both unique and eccentric as each pair is custom made. The brand draws inspiration from a number of designers and frames, but does so utilizing a number of wood materials that draw in rich character and style.

Smathers and Branson; Basketweave
http://www.smathersandbranson.com/web/catalog.aspx

These needlepoint creations are both "attractive and affordable", and pair perfectly with most any trad and ivy ensemble. From bone fish to beer cans, jockey silks to jolly rogers, these are belts are beautifully constructed and appropriately priced.Tod's; Moccasin in whiteThe brainchild of Della Valle, Tod's was created with the idea that people needed a more versatile shoe for work and play. Something that spoke to the "professional, elegant, or casual" atmosphere du moment. This led to the luxury moccasin and solidified the brands foothold (pardon the pun) in the world of fashion.

Bones and Pips

Dominoes have been played for centuries dating all the way back to Asia around 1120 AD when they are believed to have been introduced. Though the exact origin is still speculated by many, the game is believed to be of Chinese decent. In the early 18th century the game found its way to Europe, by way of Italy, and then eventually even further west to America.

The game is played with pieces often referred to as "bones" aptly named as they were originally carved from animal bone or ivory. The bones are rectangular in shape and traditionally have dots or "pips" inset. The pips are arranged in the same manner as six sided dice but since an end of a bone can be blank, there are seven possible faces. Each end of the bone contains an arrangement of pips resembling the 21 possible combinations of throwing two dice. There is also a completely blank tile, which is supposedly for the sake of symmetry.

There are a number of games and versions played all around the globe. Some are far more popular than others, and most vary from region to region. However, there are two main categories that are more commonly played - Block Dominoes and Point Dominoes. Each contains an array of interesting games with sometimes peculiar names including Blind Hughie, Chickenfoot, Muggins, Sniff, and Mexican Train. Nevertheless, the game has been a favorite amongst kings and presidents alike, and is certainly a game that every gentleman should know.

Domino Rules

http://www.domino-games.net/rules.html

Shuffling The Dominoes

Before a game or hand begins, the dominoes must be shuffled, so that no one knows the location of any given tile. Usually the stones are shuffled by turning them all face down on the table, then moving them around in a random motion, whilst taking care not to turn over any of the pieces. The collection of shuffled tiles is called the boneyard.

Beginning a Game

Before a game begins, the players have to determine who has the first move. This happens in one of two ways: either each of the players choose a domino at random, with first move going to the player holding the "heavier" domino (these dominoes are returned to the boneyard and reshuffled), or the players draw their allotted number of tiles (which varies according to the game being played), and the holder of the "heaviest" domino goes first.

Drawing Tiles

Once the players begin drawing tiles, they are typically placed on-edge before the players, so that each player can see his own tiles, but none can see the value of other players tiles. Every player can thus see how many tiles remain in the other players hands at all times during gameplay.

Placing the First Tile

Once all the players have drawn their dominoes, the first player (determined either by the drawing of lots, or by who holds the heaviest hand) places the first tile on the table. Typically, this is the double-six. If no one holds the double-six, then the double-five is played, and so on.

Playing Subsequent Tiles

In most domino games, only the "open" ends of a layout are open for play. An end is open when it has no other tile connected to it. Often, a double is placed cross-ways in the layout, straddling the end of the tile that it is connected to. Usually, additional tiles can only be placed against the long side of a double. However, the rules of some games consider all four sides of a double to be open, allowing dominoes to be connected in all four directions.

At any time, due to space constraints or mere whim, a tile may be connected at a right-angle, creating an "L" in the layout.

Drawing Tiles

As the turn passes from player to player, if someone cannot make a move, they're going to do one of two things, based on the game being played. In "block" games (or if there are no tiles left in the boneyard), a player must "pass" if he cannot make a move. In a "draw" game, a player can draw a tile from the boneyard. Depending on the game, he can then either play it (if it fits, and if the rules allow), pass (if he cannot play the drawn tile), or continue drawing until he can make a move or the boneyard is empty.

Currently, most rules allow the boneyard to be emptied completely. However, some rules do not allow the last row tiles in the boneyard to be removed, and at the end of a game, the winner receives the value of the tiles in the boneyard.

Ending a Game

A game ends either when a player plays all his tiles, or when a game is blocked. When a player plays his last time, tradition requires him to say "domino" (when this happens, the other players are said to have been “dominoed”. A game is blocked when no player is able to add another tile to the layout.

When playing a multi-round game, domino games are typically scored by awarding the number of pips on opposing player's tiles to the winner. Doubles may be counted as one or two (if one, a 6-6 counts as 6; if two, a 6-6 counts as 12), and double-blank may either count as 0 or 14. (These rule variations must be agreed upon before the game begins!) The player who reaches the target score (100, 200, or whatever is agreed on among the players), or the player who amasses the most points is a given number of rounds wins the game.

Classic Essentials: Three Must Haves

Developing a full wardrobe takes time, patience, and persistence. It is a consistent work in progress, and should be viewed as an evolutionary process. With that said, there are staple pieces to every wardrobe that should be gathered in time, and never discarded. With specific attention to the Trad wardrobe a few notable items have emerged recently as strong “must haves”; the bow tie, club collar, and Freeway frame to be exact. There are certainly many other garments, accessories, or items to list, but the aforementioned are at the top of the list (today’s list anyway). The following are favorite examples of each from three exceptional companies rich in quality and tradition.

J.Press Bow Tie

When you wear a J. Press bow tie you get more then neckwear. You have over 100 years of tailored excellence wrapped around your neck. There is a reason that Jacob Press' company has been hand crafting suiting and neckwear on the grounds of Yale University's campus since 1902. J Press' solemn commitment to perfection has made them the choice of Presidents and Ivy gentlemen for over a century, and it doesn't appear as if they will be wavering from continuing that course. Their Bow Ties are an absolute representation and essential piece for any gentleman's wardrobe.

http://www.jpressonline.com/neckwear_bowties.php?page=all

Ralph Lauren Rugby Club Collar

When Ralph Lauren decided to develop an entire collection devoted to Ivy and Trad lifestyle he revived an awkward nation. Since the first store opened on Newbury St. in Boston in October of '04, the concept has grown, spanning eleven store fronts in eleven cities. Ralph stays true to the classics with his rendition of the Eton College Uniform Collar aka the Club Collar. His authentic take, dubbed the Clayton Club Collar and is available on the rugby website.

http://www.rugby.com/

Shuron Freeway Tortoise Shell Glasses

Shuron has been crafting classic eyewear since 1865. Surviving almost three centuries as a brand in an industry is a feat that is incomprehensible to most, but to Shuron it's business as usual. Over the years many styles have been developed and many have stood the test of time; names like Ronsir, Icebreakers, Ronwinne, Nulady, and of course Freeway. These frames have been worn by presidents, celebrities, businessmen, and beatniks. The tortoise shell finish is far and away a classic traditional style which is why it has been added to the list of items that every gentleman must have – now!

http://www.shuron.com/freeway.htm

The Golden Yates

With the recent recapitulation of Ivy and Trad (Traditional) style, it seems appropriate to revisit a classic American novelist, and, in many ways an icon in Ivy. Yates was true to his profession and personal aesthetic as evident in his devotion to both. Like his books, his style never deviated from excellence. He taught as several prestigious schools including Columbia, so it is no surprise that he was clad in a Trad navy blazer, rep tie, and flannel trousers. His notable works include Revolutionary Road and A Good School; two must reads for those who are Trad enthusiasts. In the true spirit of the Ivy aesthetic, Carpé (www.carpeusa.com)reinterprets the Tennis Blazer using 100% cotton in a french terry knit, and rubberized buttons on the front and cuff. Pair that with a solid oxford and rep tie from J.Press (www.jpressonline.com) and create the perfect beginning to a classic American look.

Further reading on Yates from an exceptional blog we love...
http://www.ivy-style.com/index.php?s=Richard+Yates

"Richard Yates was one of those guys who adopted the Ivy look early in life and never let go of it. Whether due to good taste, lack of imagination, orbeing too impecunious to afford new clothes, Yates' perennial style was recently described by Dan Wakefield (author of "New York in the Fifties") as follows: Yates never lusted for riches, and I can't imagine him wearing anything other than his daily uniform of Brooks Brothers navy blue blazer,button-down blue shirt with rep tie, and gray flannel trousers. Whether I saw him in New York in the '50s or Boston in the '80s he was always dressed the same. Now, like so many other writers, Yates is finding posthumous success, thanks in part to the new film adaptation of his novel "Revolutionary Road". Those who use "The Official Preppy Handbook" as their literary canon as well as sartorial breviary will already be familiar with his novel "A Good School", which is on the OPH's recommended reading list."

Chivalry 101

Chivalry 101

May 13, 2009

Chivalry has long since been regarded as something of a lost art form that represents more of a childhood nostalgia. Something inherent to the days when fairy tales inspired young boys to become dragon slaying knights. In fact, it seems in the more recent days it has been all but forgotten. So as chivalry possibly breaths its terminal breath, lets explore the essence of its once vicarious life. That which turned boys into men, and men into Gentelmen.Gentlemen (in training) should follow these additional rules when in the presence of a lady. Chivalry may be on life support, but it is not dead yet. Be one of the few to keep this flame burning for many years to come.

Always open doors
This is perhaps the most basic rule of male etiquette out there. It is also one of the easiest to follow so you have no reason to forget it. Whether she is about to enter your car, restaurant, club, or anyplace with a door, you should always hold it open. If there are many doors, then hold them open one after the other.

Put on her coat
Always help a lady put on her coat or overgarment. This is a simple but powerful action.

Help with her seat
If an unaccompanied lady is sitting next to you, it is important that you help her be seated by pulling her chair out for her and gently pushing it back into place, with the lady seated of course.

Give up your seat
If a lady arrives at the table and there are no available seats, you should stand up and offer yours to her.

Stand at attention
Always stand when a lady enters or exits the room. This rule has been somewhat relaxed, so you can stand upon entrance but remain seated upon exit. Nonetheless, if you can do both, you should.

Give her your arm
When escorting a lady (that you know) to and from social events, you should offer her your arm. This is a little more intimate, but serves well when walking on uneven ground -- especially if she's wearing high heels.

Ask if she needs anything
This is one that most guys already do, but helps complete the gentleman in all of us nevertheless. When at social events, make sure to ask the lady if you can get her something to drink (or eat, depending on the event). Show her that you care about her comfort and needs.

Gentlemen, if I may call you that, these are the rules of etiquette you should observe in everyday life. Elevate yourself above the rabble and display the mannerisms of a true gentleman. The world will appreciate such a rarity and your career will most definitely benefit from your good manners and savoir-faire.

http://www.askmen.com/money/successful/41b_success.html

The Golf Jacket

The golf jacket used to be staple in a man's wardrobe. We're glad to see it is once again gaining interest. A light weight water resistant cotton is usually perfect for an early morning tee time, or evening dinner reservation. Whatever your need , it pairs well with a polo, rolled up trousers and low top sneakers.

Far Left: Cotton jersey "Sporting Club Tennis Rugby" ($105) by Carpé Available at Saks Fifth Avenue and Nordstorm.

Middle: Cotton jacket ($255) by Lacoste; cotton piqué polo shirt ($80) byAdam+Eve; cotton corduroy trousers ($158) by Juicy Men; sneakers ($60) byAdidas Originals www.esquire.com/style/fashion-story/raincoat0807

Far Right: Tag Heuer Aquaracer Automatic Chronograph http://www.tagheuer.com/the-collection/aquaracer/man/automatic-chronograph/index.lbl?w=CAF2111.BA0809

The Weekend Dash

May 11, 2009: The Weekend Dash

Escaping the rigors of work can be as equally important as good diet or daily exercise. However, planning extended vacations can be difficult to do when work is demanding and time is limited. Therefore, planning the weekend getaway has become an art form. Knowing how to get in, hit the best the best of the best, and get back in time for the morning meeting is crucial.

Location: Savannah, GA

Savannah, GA: This weekends feature getaway is a gem of southern living, Savannah, GA.

Savannah has long been a beacon of civility, taste, and culture along the meandering southeast coastline. Steeped in almost three hundred years of history, and with a stunning architectural heritage that is second-to-none, Savannah is a treasure chest just waiting for you to open. Read more. http://www.savannah.com/



Lodge: The Mansion on Forsyth

The Mansion on Forsyth Park Hotel welcomes you to a magnificently restored Victorian mansion set in Savannah’s legendary Historic District. From the moment you enter the onyx marble appointed lobby, you will experience the essence of Southern luxury. From our celebrated cuisine, to spa pampering and world-class Kessler Collection service, every detail is polished to perfection. Our intimate yet opulent hotel is graced by a collection of over 400 pieces of original artwork. Just outside lies Forsyth Park’s lush setting…moments away, explore the timeless intrigue and excitement that is synonymous with Savannah.

http://www.mansiononforsythpark.com/



Dine: Cha Bella

Cha Bella's is on the cutting edge of the fine dining experience. The approach is as simple as embracing & celebrating where food originates. Each staff member of Cha Bella tours local organic farms to get the freshest produce & a deeper understanding of the quality of produce we serve our customers. At Cha Bella's we partner with our local fishermen & farmers to secure the freshest seafood & produce daily. In addition to fine dining, we provide catering services with Earth to Table to extend fine dining to your home. Pete Lamb of Savannah Morning News gave Cha Bella's an A+. " The dish was an explosion of flavor - sweetness was the first impression - but then bursts of tanginess, acidity & earthiness combined to make this salad a spectacular example of pleasing flavors." This captures the true essence of Cha Bella's. It is fine dining in an informal atmosphere.

http://savannah.citysearch.com/profile/44599806

You can find Cha Bella www.cha-bella.com at 102 E. Broad St., for Lunch: Mon-Sat, 11:30-3 and Dinner: Tues-Sun, 5-10.

Recommended Dish:

Traditional, Thin Crust Flatbread
classic, with fresh basil, house-made fresh
mozzarella, arugula & marinated tomato

Baby Arugula Salad
with spiced pecans, fresh raspberries, a crumble
of Italian gorgonzola cheese & a fresh raspberry vinaigrette

All Natural Filet of Beef
8 oz. tenderloin, pan-seared & classically presented
with mushroom demi-glaze.

Dress:

Carpé High Seas Polo: Light weight 100% combed cotton jersey in 1/8” navy and white yarn dyed stripes. Contrast solid navy flat knit collar and cuffs. Extra soft hand for extreme comfort.

The John B5 Tom Ford Aviators: Square frame and double bridge. Black frame with rose gold bridge bar, brown striped temple and brown lens.

Iconic Military Twill Pant: Drawing heritage inspiration from military classics, the Ralph Lauren Icon pant is salt-washed and subtly frayed for a timeworn, lived-in look that is the pinnacle of casual style. Roll the bottom cuff for the relaxed look.

http://www.ralphlauren.com/product/index.jsp?productId=3511068&cp=1760781.1760811&ab=ln_men_cs1_pants&parentPage=family

White Sebago Boat Shoe: The handsewn boat shoe that started it all. With rubber slip-resistant soles, rawhide laces and non-corrosive brass eyelets. Genuine moccasin construction wraps the foot in a single piece of leather, creating a fit that’s uniquely your own.

Restaurant Review: Bouchon

Bouchon: Created by Thomas Keller, the owner of the French Laundry, Bouchon Bistro serves customers cuisine that truly reflects the culinary heritage of French gastronomy. Plats Principaux range from bistro favorites like Steak Frites, and Croque Madames to reinventions on popular dishes such as savory beignets with tomato confit and fried sage.

Christofle Flatwear: Founded in the mid 1800’s, Christofle flatware reflects a certain elegance, and innovation. Steeped in a rich history that only comes from centuries of experienced, the brand has decisively become the epitome of old-world style with a hint of modernity.

Carpé Country Club Rugby: Comfortable, yet refined, this 100% cotton jersey rugby is versatile enough to wear during the day, and for an evening of fine dining.



Etiquette Do’s and Don’ts: The Carpé man needs to know how to handle himself in any situation, especially ones that require a certain level of class. Especially when dining with important people, it’s imperative to know how to behave.

(Courtesy of gourmet-food-revolution.com)

• Once seated, unfold your napkin and use it for occasionally wiping your lips or fingers. At the end of dinner, leave the napkin tidily on the place setting.
• It is good dinner table etiquette to serve the lady sitting to the right of the host first, then the other ladies in a clockwise direction, and lastly the gentlemen.
• Hold the knife and fork with the handles in the palm of the hand, forefinger on top, and thumb underneath.
• Whilst eating, you may if you wish rest the knife and fork on either side of the plate between mouthfuls. When you have finished eating, place them side by side in the center of the plate.
• If the food presented to you is not to your liking, it is polite to at least make some attempt to eat a small amount of it. Or at the very least, cut it up a little, and move it around the plate!
• It is quite acceptable to leave some food to one side of your plate if you feel as though you have eaten enough. On the other hand, don't attempt to leave your plate so clean that it looks as though you haven't eaten in days!
• Desserts may be eaten with both a spoon and fork, or alternatively a fork alone if it is a cake or pastry style sweet.
• Should a lady wish to be excused for the bathroom, it is polite for the gentlemen to stand up as she leaves the table, sit down again, and then stand once more when she returns.
• Always make a point of thanking the host and hostess for their hospitality before leaving.
• It is good dinner table etiquette to send a personal thank you note to the host and hostess shortly afterwards.
  

The Right Way to Golf

Around the World Polo: To dress the part of a distinguished golfer, the Carpe Around the World Polo is ideal. Made of 100% cotton, the polo is comfortable yet sophisticated, making it perfect for playing a round of golf.

Pacific Dunes Golf Course: Pacific Dunes in Bandon, Oregon is as picturesque as it is challenging. With a giant natural dune to the right of the fairway and the Pacific Ocean to the left, it's no wonder that golfers will travel from all over the country to play the course.

John Lobb Golf Shoes: These made to measure golfing shoes are perfect footwear for a day of golfing. The shoes are made from calf leather and are measured to perfectly fit your foot. You can even choose a cleat pattern to fit your stance.

Louis Vuitton Damier Geant Golf Bag: The bag retails for $9,750, making it the world's most expensive golf bag. The look of the bag is sleek and contemporary. The bag is also practical, containing numerous pockets for clothes, umbrellas, towels and balls. With a combination of practicality and luxury, this bag is perfect for anyone who wants to golf in style.

Ping i-SERIES Putter: The Ping i-SERIES putter is engineered so that the face of the club gives a firm hit combined with a soft feel, resulting in a better putting shot.